There is no reason to be with people who are a pain in the ass (PITA).
You can’t reason with them, you can’t change them, and you can’t get them to stop.
It’s best just to keep your distance. don’t interact with them, and if necessary, just run away from them.
.Don’t put them in your life, exclude them. Stay away from them. Their only commitment is to involve you in their drama, to suck you in, to bring you down.